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Inspirational Lessons: Snake in the Barrel!

Wednesday, July 7th, 2010

Mr. Lassater was a fine old fella.

He had once owned the building I now rented for my first venture into business–a little music store–and now he was retired.

Still, he liked to visit with folks who would come by during the day, and so he kept a little front corner of the store to display television sets, which  he and his elderly and nearly blind wife would sit watching most of the day, occasionally selling one and enjoying the visit with his customer, usually someone he had known for years.

I was glad to have him there, as he would answer the phone and more or less keep my part of the store for me when I needed to be away on a sales call or a piano tuning. He provided a great deal of emotional security for me, and he watched me–and watched me–and watched me.

After I had been in business about six months, bill paying time began coming too quickly, and I found myself doing a lot of juggling of funds to keep the doors open. I robbed Peter to pay Paul lots of times, and now it was getting harder and harder to pay Peter back. I was getting myself in trouble, and Mr. Lassater just watched, puffing on his Sherlock Holmes type pipe, and never saying a word.

Finally, just before Christmas of that first year, it came to be reckoning time. Mr. Lassater watched me juggle figures on my desk for hours, with no good results. I owed money to the bank, the rent was past due, I had sold pianos for which I had not yet paid my suppliers, the telephone was about to be cut off, and I could see no way I could generate enough income to save the business. I was in despair, and Mr. Lassater could see it.

Just before closing time, the fine old man pulled his chair over to the front of my desk, and said, “I want to tell you a story.”

Well, anything was better than just sitting there in gloom, and so I told him to go ahead.

“One time in my backyard,” he said, “there was a barrel under a tree limb. One day a frog fell off the limb down into the barrel. He tried and tried to jump out, but no matter how hard he jumped, he couldn’t get out. He just couldn’t jump high enough to reach the rim. He thought he was going to die, and was about  to give up, when a snake crawled into the barrel through a tiny hole in the bottom, and you know what?”

“What?” I said, knowing what he would say.

“That frog jumped clear out of that barrel in one giant leap.”

I sat there and watched him as he and his dear old wife gathered up their things and left the store for the evening. After a few minutes I picked up the phone to call my only salesman who had already gone home.

“Al,” I said, “I need for you to come back down to the store for a little bit.”

“What for?” asked Al, who was probably at supper.

“There’s a snake in the barrel,” I said.

Al appeared in a little while, and we planned our strategy. There were nine pianos in the warehouse, and somehow we would sell them all by Saturday, only three days away. Of course that was  an impossible task in that little town, but there was a snake in the barrel, after all, and we had to.

Early the next morning we went out to see Floyd Stewart, the owner of and the only announcer in the little radio station, KRMO. We told Floyd the problem, and told him we could afford to pay him only if we sold the pianos, but we were asking for his help. Then I told him what Mr. Lassator had said about the snake in the barrel. Floyd, who was an old friend of Mr. Lassater, agreed, and he pushed those pianos many times a day for the next three days, always beginning the commercial in his big booming voice, “THERE’S A SNAKE IN THE BARREL!”

By Saturday, the pianos were all sold, and I paid the bank, the phone company, the rent, and sent the money for the two pianos I had sold but not yet paid for. Of course it was costly, because I had to discount the pianos considerably, but it kept me in business, and I never let the frog fall into the barrel again.

–Joe Edwards

This story hits home for me. There was a time when I ONLY had 24 hours to get out of where I lived or else I would be homeless. Within less than 24 hours I found a room for rent with a woman who needed a roommate at her apartment. Not only was she helping me, but I was helping her too. It HAD to happen no matter what or else I would be on the street. It was a mindset that is hard to describe, but if you’ve ever been in these shoes before, you know exactly how I felt. This mindset is what we need to have to accomplish something that means so much to you, that nothing will stand in your way and it WILL happen no matter what. There are NO doubts, no indecision. In your mind, you KNOW it’s there and it WILL happen!

 

Inspirational Stories: 1 Dollar and 11 Cents!

Tuesday, June 8th, 2010

Tess was a precocious eight year old when she heard her Mom and Dad talking about her little brother, Andrew. All she knew was that he was very sick and they were completely out of money. They were moving to an apartment complex next month because Daddy didn’t have the money for the doctor’s bills and our house. Only a very costly surgery could save him now and it was looking like there was no one to loan them the money. She heard Daddy say to her tearful Mother with whispered desperation, “Only a miracle can save him now.”

Tess went to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its hiding place in the closet. She poured all the change out on the floor and counted it carefully. Three times, even. The total had to be exactly perfect. No chance here for mistakes. Carefully placing the coins back in the jar and twisting on the cap, she slipped out the back door and made her way 6 blocks to Rexall’s Drug Store with the big red Indian Chief sign above the door. She waited patiently for the pharmacist to give her some attention but he was too busy at this moment. Tess twisted her feet to make a  scuffing noise. Nothing. She cleared her throat with the most disgusting sound she could muster. No good. Finally she took a quarter from her jar and banged  it on the glass counter.  That did it! “And what do you want?”  the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of voice. I’m talking to my  brother from  Chicago whom I haven’t seen in ages,” he said without waiting for a reply to his question. “Well, I want to talk to you about my brother,” Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone. “He’s really, really sick… and I want to buy a miracle.”

“I beg your pardon?” said the pharmacist. “His name is Andrew and he has something bad growing inside his head and my Daddy says only a miracle can save him now!  So how much does a miracle cost?”
“We don’t sell miracles here, little girl. I’m sorry but I can’t help you,” the pharmacist said, softening a little.

“Listen, I have the money to pay for it. If it isn’t enough, I will get the rest. Just tell me how much it costs.”

The pharmacist’s brother was a well dressed man. He stooped down and asked the little girl, “What kind of a miracle does your brother need?”  “I don’t know,” Tess replied with her eyes welling up.

“I just know he’s really sick and Mommy says he needs an operation. But my Daddy can’t pay for it, so I want to use my money”.

“How much do you have?” asked the man from Chicago.

“One dollar and eleven cents,” Tess answered barely audible.
“And it’s all the money I have, but I can get some more if I need to.”

“Well, what a coincidence,” smiled the man. “A dollar and eleven cents–the exact price of a miracle for little brothers.” He took her money in one hand and with the other hand he grasped her mitten and said  “Take me to where you live. I want to see your brother and meet your parents.  Let’s see if I have the kind of miracle you need.”

That well dressed man was Dr. Carlton Armstrong, a surgeon, specializing in neuro-surgery. The operation was completed without charge and it wasn’t long until Andrew was home again and doing well.
Mom and Dad were happily talking about the chain of events that had led them to this place.  “That surgery,”her Mom whispered. “was a real miracle. I wonder how much it would have cost?”
Tess smiled. She knew exactly how much a miracle cost… one dollar and eleven cents …… plus the faith of a little child.

A miracle is not the suspension of natural law, but the operation of a higher law…… (A TRUE STORY)

I know you’ll keep the ball moving!  Here it goes. Throw it back to someone else who means something to you!

Inspirational Stories: Success, Wealth, and Love!

Tuesday, May 18th, 2010

A woman came out of her house and saw three old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said, “I don’t think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat.”

“Is the man of the house home?” they asked.

“No,” she said. “He’s out.”

“Then we cannot come in,” they replied.

In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what happened. “Go tell them I am home and invite them in!” The woman went out and invited the men in. “We do not go into a house together,” they replied.

“Why is that?” she wanted to know.

One of the old men explained: “His name is Wealth”, he said pointing to one of his friends, and then pointing to another one, “He is Success, and I am Love.” Then he added, “Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home.”

The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. “How nice!” he said. “Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth.”

His wife disagreed. “My dear, why don’t we invite Success?”

Their daughter-in-law was listening from the other corner of the house.

She jumped in with her own suggestion. “Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with Love!”

“Let us heed our daughter-in-law’s advice,” said the husband to his wife. “Go out and invite Love to be our guest.”

The woman went out and asked the three old men, “Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest.”

Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other two also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success: “I only invited Love. Why are you coming in?”

The old men replied together: “If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would of stayed out, but since you invited Love, where He goes, we go with him.

Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!! My wish for you…where there is pain, I wish you peace and mercy. When there is self-doubting, I wish you a renewed confidence in your ability to work through them. When there is tiredness, or exhaustion, I wish you understanding, patience, and renewed strength. Where there is fear, I wish you love and courage.

Munchkin and I (Senegal Parrot)

Munchkin and I

Inspirational Lessons: The Cracked Pot!

Saturday, May 15th, 2010
The Cracked Pot

The Cracked Pot

A water bearer in India had two large pots, each hung on the end of a pole which he carried across his neck. One of the pots was perfectly made and never leaked. The other pot had a crack in it and by the time the water bearer reached his master’s house it  had leaked much of its water and was only half full.

For a full two years this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only one and a half pots full of water to his master’s house. Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish only half of what it had been made to do. After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, it spoke tot he water bearer one day by the stream.

“I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to you.”

“Why?” asked the bearer. “What are you ashamed of?”

“I have been able, for these past two years, to deliver only half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your master’s house. Because of my flaws you have to do all of this work, and you don’t get full value from your efforts”, the pot said.

The water bearer felt sorry for the old cracked pot, and in his compassion he said, “As we return tot he master’s house, I want you to notice the beautiful flowers along the path.”

Indeed, as they went up the hill, the old cracked pot took notice of the sun warming the beautiful wild flowers on the side of the path, and this cheered it some. But at the end of the trail, it still felt bad because it had leaked out half its load, and so again the pot apologized to the bearer for its failure.

The bearer said to the pot, “Did you notice that there were flowers only on your side of your path, and not on the other pot’s side?

That’s because I have always known about your flaw, and I took advantage of it. I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back from the stream, you’ve watered them.

For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate my master’s table. Without you being just the way you are, he would not have this beauty to grace his house.”

(Author unknown)

Think about what makes YOU unique! What you perceive as a flaw may be seen by others as a great asset. Maybe it’s your slightly crooked smile or jokes that warm other people up or your height that makes you a great basketball player. Don’t neglect to count the positives that make you who you are!

Inspirational Lessons: Dance Like a Kid at a Wedding!

Tuesday, May 4th, 2010

I first read this inspiring story in 2001. So the little girl in the story is now much older. I wonder if she is still thinking and dancing like a kid!

“The true test of character is how we behave when we don’t know what to do.”—John Holt

“It takes as much courage to have tried and failed as it does to have tried and succeeded.”–Anne Morrow Lindbergh

“Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.” –Abraham Lincoln

“Daddy, I want to be a Dinosaur Doctor that dances and live on a farm with lots of animals, because I like to do all these things.”–Carolyn Carrithers, 4 years old (in 2001).

Just this week we returned from a fun trip to New York. Carolyn, Hannah (her 2-year-old sister), Kristy and I went to a wedding. it was such fun to watch the girls really enjoy themselves at the wedding (their first). They were all dressed up (yes, in matching outfits), they took it all in.

What really made me stop and think was when they were out on the dance floor dancing. They had such an intensity about their movements, their twirling, their speed. They were focused and lost to the world around them. They never took notice of the 300 other people, watching, laughing and enjoying watching them dance. They just danced because they loved to dance. A big dance floor, a live band and pretty dresses that made it even more fun to twirl. (Hey, an idea for parents, we should rent a hall and get a live band and have a sock hop for 2-7 year olds. Great babysitting concept?)

I thought to myself, “Isn’t that great. Such ease of fun, such enjoyment in the doing. No care to what others think. No fear of right or wrong. No self doubt of should I, could I, can I. Just the joy of doing, of trying, of living the moment.” Their 2 1/2 hours of dancing brought so much happiness to themselves and to those watching, almost as if we–the big people–wished we could dance with such joy and abandonment.

The next day we went into NYC to the Museum of Natural History (everyone needs to go their with their kids) to see the world’s largest Dinosaur exhibit. After the day trip into the city, I asked Carolyn, “so what do you want to be when you grow up?” And in simple and direct terms she said the above statement. It made me realize that when a child is asked what they want to do they respond with what they like to do. They imagine a world where they get to do what they like, what is fun, what interests them. Somewhere between 4 and 20 years we shift from this great thinking to one of worry, fear, salary, position, title, limitations…

So a simple thought for you: think like a kid, feel like a kid, experience things like a kid–without fear, focused on the fun and the experience! Make life a dance, wear a pretty dress and go with the beat.

By: David Carrithers

Inspirational Lessons: Are you a Carrot, Egg or a Coffee Bean?

Monday, March 29th, 2010

I love inspirational stories, lessons, quotes and other meaningful things to read. It always makes a difference in my life in some way, shape or form. This particular one makes me realize that everyone has hardships, some more than others and it’s in “how” you handle that hardship that makes all the difference in the world. Which one are you? Are you a carrot, egg or a coffee bean?

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water. In the first, she placed carrots. In the second, she placed eggs and the last one, she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a word. In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.

Turning to her daughter, she asked, “Tell me what you see?”

“Carrots, eggs, and coffee,” she replied. She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted they got soft. She then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled, as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, “What’s the point, mom?”

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity–the boiling water–but each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its insides became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water they had changed the water.

“Which one are you?” she asked her daughter. “When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?”

Think of this: Which am I?

Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity, do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart?

Or am I like a coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate to another level?

How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

(Author unknown)